I'll get a piece of the action with $12 on pulaskipoet's brother.
listen, maybe she wants a 'father figure' or someone who has done his clubbing etc. Maybe she wants someone who is settled with a house, car, a stable career path. However, old you might be in the head, you'll always be younger than her, so it will never be serious, even it it does 'happen'. she might 'try you' out of curiosity?!
Oh yes, men who bewail their love for another woman, to a woman, really don't earn many browny points. You've probably shot yourself in the foot there!
Time to go out with the lads and survey other options, I'm afraid! or
If you really like older women, get yourself on a dating website and find another one, who's looking for a 'toy boy'.